What’s The Legal Age Of Marriage? when we are in the midst of the most crucial period of our lives. As we grow older, we begin to move around the preparation for marriage. Adults are constantly telling us their views and experiences about marriage.
However, young people who want to get married are confused about this, especially when they get entangled in questions like when one should get married and why marriages are important in life.
Legally the perfect age for marriage is about 21 for girls and for boys is around 21 to 23 but it’s not possible ideally.
The education of both girls and boys completes at the age of 24 and they get financially stable at around age 26 to 28 due to which somehow, it’s difficult for some people to get marry at the legal age of marriage 21.
As a result, I believe there is no perfect age for marriage, but one should consider the following factors while deciding when to marry.
Here’s what you should consider while marrying:
1.The significance of Marriage:
What is the definition of marriage and why are marriages important in life? Only those who understand why they want to marry will be able to keep the relationship going till the end.
Otherwise, excessive haste usually leads to disaster.
Many people have a misconception that after marriage a person will be happy, and people who have already gotten married have a misconception that marriage is just a dispute.
A relationship lasts only when you understand the true meaning of that relationship. In fact, just like every coin has two sides, so does the world.
Every day after marriage is not romantic; it adds many challenges and difficulties to life, and having to be with someone at such a time is priceless. It is very important to understand these things before marriage.
The moment you get the answers to these three questions, like, what is marriage? Why should one need to marry? And what’s the value of the person in your life whom you are going to marry? Only then I feel one should definitely think of marriage.
2.Right fit:
I don’t believe in soulmates or even in love at first sight. It’s just an illusion that we are blindly following. Without knowing the person’s nature, how can we fall in love with someone. It’s an infatuation, not love.
Get married if you meet a person who understands you well and safeguards your existence from evil.
Don’t get married because all your friends are getting married or because you are tired of answering questions. Don’t get married because you feel lonely on Valentine’s Day. Don’t get married because you have a younger sister who needs to get married next or because you think you’ll get a company in your old age.
Don’t get married because you’re worried about when you’ll become a mother. Don’t get married because your ex boyfriend is getting married.
Then when is the right time to get married? It’s when you find the one who deserves your love and time.
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The matching of two minds and two thoughts is more important than matching the qualities of marriage magazines.
Love in a relationship is important, and where there is love, harmony, and belongingness, there is no age restriction.
3. Independent:
When you emotionally as well as financially independent only then look for a partner. No one can complete another person. Instead, be the better half of your partner.
Usually, people make unrealistic expectation from their married life and believing that the other person would make it perfect. In fact, married life’s chariot has two wheels, and if one of them breaks, the whole thing falls apart.
Take complete responsibility for your own happiness and never put it in other people’s hands. Make sure that your loneliness never affects your partner.
You won’t be able to take lead and be ready for marriage unless you are sure that your life is complete.
4. Ready for more responsibilities:
Defy family pressure to get married, whether it comes from your parents or other relatives. Marry when you are completely on your feet and are ready to take more responsibilities, as well as mentally prepared for the other person to enter into your life. I think this will be the best time to tie the knot.
Owing to societal norms and standards, I saw some families pressuring their children into marriage without even asking them what they thought. However, it is necessary to face this terrible truth in to bring the change.
Conclusion:
What one considers the “perfect age” for marriage may vary depending on cultural, societal, personal, and individual beliefs and values.
- The moment you get the answers to these three questions, like, what is marriage? Why should one need to marry? And what’s the value of the person in your life whom you are going to marry? Only then should one definitely think of marriage.
- The matching of two minds and two thoughts is more important than matching the qualities of marriage magazines. Love in a relationship is important, and where there is love, harmony, and belongingness, there is no age restriction. When you find the right partner, you can take the steps to marriage.
- When you emotionally as well as financially independent only then look for a partner. Make sure that your loneliness never affects your partner. Only when you are confident in your own sense of wholeness will you be able to take the initiative and be ready for marriage.
- Don’t get married under the pressure of your parents or relatives. Instead, marry when you are completely on your feet and are ready to take more responsibilities as well as mentally prepare for the other person to enter into your life.